Things are looking grim if she doesn’t seem to be returning a phone-call or an e-mail. But not all is lost yet as it all depends how you proceed from here.
One certain way to mess things up is calling / e-mailing her some more with the message being that although you are just slightly confused as to why she hasn’t answered you yet, its ok anyway, lets try again, “here’s my number one more time” etc. Bad. This is sure-fire method of losing her.
Another way to react is not to react at all – you sent your message, she received it, now its her turn to act, and if she doesn’t, well, too bad. This method lets you keep your integrity and pride, but you could also be losing out on women who either can’t seem to be able to make up their minds (but beware, they will
definetly decide against you once they receive a supplicating follow-up message from you!) and/or are the kind of girls, that know to start “behaving” only after having received a few “slaps” from you.
So if hopes were high (you hit it off well, she gave you her number etc, any signals of possible interest you might have received from her will do) but now she seems to have disappeared – show that you WILL NOT TOLERATE such a behaviour, and only because you saw some potential for the two of you are you WILLING to give her ONE LAST CHANCE. But if she dares to f_ck up again – its bye-bye- and blam!-door-slam-time:)
A sample e-mail/voice message:
“Hi [girls name]. This is [my name]. I wanted to let you know how disappointed I was that you didn’t call me back. But, since I saw so much potential for us I thought I would give you one last chance. So why don’t you give me a call.”
This approach also works if she does return your e-mails and phone-calls, but never seems to have time to actually get together with you. So if she always seems to have some prior engagements or projects or business or other BS to take care of and never time for you, here’s an example of a simple and direct message by Maniac High:
“Hi xxx So are you going to make time to meet me, or are you always busy? I am free Sunday afternoon btw.”